wedding time..part 2

masih tak terlamabat nak wishkan SELAMAT PENGANTIN BARU kepada Paksu Nadzry ku dan juga Maksu yg telah menamatkan zaman bujang mereka pada 12 Mac 2011 yang lalu..semoga Allah merahmati dan memberkati perkahwinan mereka, semoga berbahagia sehingga ke akhir hayat..insyAllah..

Sabtu, 12 Mac 2011..pagi jam 7..its still early in the morning but my eyes are already open indicates that something will happen today..yes..its a solemnization day of my beloved uncle (dari belah arwah mama) that is going to be in 4 hours time..at about 11 oclock in the morning. majlis diadakan di rumah pengantin perempuan sendiri iaitu di Simpang Renggam kira-kira 1 setengah jam perjalanan dari Kg Sg Mati. Rombongan pengantin lelaki seramai 20 orang dari 4 buah kenderaan bertolak pd jam 9 pagi..tiba kami disambut mesra oleh keluarga belah perempuan tepat jam 1030 pagi..

As usual, the handsome pengantin n pengapit (me of course) anxious to be in front of the whole audience dengan pakaian yg cukup ..the akad and nikah ceremony were done cpmletely at about 1 hour later..in a gloomy but happy mode..Alhamdulilah..segala nya disempurnakan sehingga ke akhirnya..sunnah Rasulullah telah disempurnakan oleh bapa pengantin perempuan berwakil wali kan kepada Jurunikah yg dijemput keluarga mereka. the dishes was really good and sedap ditambah pulak dgn kami yg mmg tgh kelaparan..selesai makan, tktau plak nak ke mane disebabkan salah fhm antara kedua dua pihak..mujur segala kerumitan dpt diatasi dgn baik dengan kesefahaman keluarga kedua2 mempelai..alhamdulilah..

Aku dan Nadzry bersiap utk kenduri pd ptg itu di rumah sepupu pengantin perempuan manakala rombongan kami selebihnya berehat di surau berdekatan utk solat zohor dan sebagainya.. tepat jam 230 ptg, kami mula berkumpul utk berarak ke rumah pengantin perempuan sekali lagi utk upacara persandingan. kelihatan rmai sanak saudara, rakan taulan, serta jiran jiran dan penduduk kampung dtg beramai ke rumah pengantin utk melihat sendiri upacara persandingan  ini..camera bertimbun2 kat dpn kami..mcm artis pn ade..
kami diiringi paluan kompang dan selawat..
sesampai di dpn umah pengantin..satu benda yg aku blja bile bertandang ke rumah pengantin di johor ni.."TOL"..haha..tugas ni sepatutnya diuruskan oleh pengapit mcm aku..tp sbb baru 1st time..so kene la di "touch n go" kan oleh tok lang ku yg lebih arif..hehe..dia cuma ckp .."ape la ko ni..hehe..".."malu je jd org johor"..dah mmg aku bkn org johor pun..haha..good experience for me..
seterusnya upacara menepung tawar oleh keluarga dari kedua 2 belah dan sesi fotografi..biase la tu..tangkap2 gambar..wajib dalam perkahwinan zmn moden ni..tak sah..mst at least abis ribu riban jgk kat fotografi..seterusnya upacara 'makan biadap'..eh silap..'makan beradap'..utk kedua2 mempelai yg dilayan bak raja..sehari je!

 Paksu Nadzry dan pengapit (aku)

Kami selesai semuanya dalam jam 4 dan mula bertolak blk ke Muar utk membuat persiapan bg menyambut kdtgan pengntin perempuan pula..

to be continue..

..wedding time PART 1..

hate to say this but the past weekend gave me a lot of thoughts to remember..

i was the one who really 'not into' the wedding time..sorry frens..the fact that i really enjoy all the 'rare-dishes' cooked such as 'nasi minyak', 'nasi beriani', 'ayam masak merah', 'daging gulai kawah', 'dalca' and many more traditional dishes that i accidentally involved during its preparation.

it was a memorable experience to get involved in the 'kampung wedding' fever..huu..basically i was the man in charge..'multi-tasking' job..from 'pengapit' to 'rewang-man'..'geng masak' and lastly 'tukang cuci'..yang mula2 ngn last tu yg paling penat..haha..tp 'pengapit' penat pun tp ttp plg best..kerana adanya 'seseorang' yg telah mengurangkan kepanasan dan menyejukkan keadaan..alhamdulilah..she is gorgeous, marvellous, responsible and loving..

i went back to kampung in Batu 81/2 Kg. Bukit Kangkar, Sungai Mati, Muar on Friday evening together with my sister, Areena. It was a tiring day instead..i have to wake up early that day to invigilate my students' final examination and after Jumaat, with minimize rest, i have to drive for 2 hours..at one time rasa mcm bwk kete mcm org mabuk..terhuyung-hayang..last2 ena (areena) bukak mister potato baru lah cerah blk mata..at 6 o'clock, we arrived at kampung..and disambut oleh semua relatives..nice moments to share..


to be continue..

counting days..

11.40 pm..monday..March 3,2011..its raining now here in PALAM and sometimes it falls like there is no stop..cats and dogs with sometimes lightning strike heard in between..
i juz got a message from one of my gud friend that she is going to get engage with her bf soon..Alhamdulilah..there is no gud news as compare to this one though far deep in my heart whispering that i was in a phase of 'marriage' now..fuhhhh..a lot of words begging and clinging to my feeling knowing that i am not the old me who can just laugh and smile to people when asking to this, but i am one of the 'sweetest heart' of the family..the fact is i am no longer can be in a 'single-league' perhaps should be settling down..the question is who am i to marry soon..?i am not the perfect guy who can easily get what they want in finding the right person to share their life..what should i do when dealing with my 'future-wife'..?sometimes its kinda stress to think that i am still single and not attach to anybody..maybe is a message from Allah that Knows everything..Allah the AlMighty..by being me, is a relieved to know that i have a lot of things to settle before entering into the marriage phase including most probably my studies, Arwah mama's Amanah Raya, and of course the existing family that still not in harmony mode..InsyAllah..there is a light at the end of the tunnel..i believe in Allah's Fate..destiny..is all already written..just counting the days..

Oh Allah, guide me to the right path..